T17: backend penyimpanan bersama db.py (sqlite | mysql via PyMySQL)

- db.py: abstraksi connect/query/queryone/replace_snapshot; %s → ? utk sqlite;
  replace snapshot mysql = CREATE IF NOT EXISTS + DELETE + INSERT (MVCC)
- config/.env.example: VEX_DB_BACKEND (default sqlite) + VEX_DB_HOST/PORT/USER/PASS/NAME
- get_voters.persist → db.replace_snapshot; dashboard baca via db.query
- LIKE pakai ESCAPE '!' (backslash memutus literal string MySQL, B2);
  db.query selalu kembalikan list (PyMySQL tuple vs sqlite list, B3)
- docker-compose.yml: kontainer uji mariadb:11 (databisnisid-mariadb, 127.0.0.1:3306)
- test_mariadb.py: suite integrasi opt-in (skip bila bukan mysql)
- SPEC.md §V17/T17/B2/B3; AGENTS.md runbook

requirements.txt

@@ -2,3 +2,4 @@ requests>=2.31
 flask>=3.0
 python-dotenv>=1.0
 gunicorn>=22.0
+PyMySQL>=1.1